Twilight?

What can I say? Seems like this series of books has been sweeping our wives off their feet. (Something we use to do) So, who is this Edward character? He has been reeking havoc on my self esteem as of late. Apparently this guy is the epitome of male behavior, caring, romantic, thoughtful, and would fight anything for his Bella. If you're reading this you've most likely read the book or your wife has made you fully aware of it. At first, I couldn't stand to hear about the book, it was always, here we go again. But tomorrow is my birthday and as many of you know yesterday was the date my Mother passed away four years ago. During this occasion I usually have an interesting mixture of feelings. Ledah, as always, had a party for me on Friday. Any party Ledah throws usually is awesome and this one was no exception. So, I got to thinking and my wife got to asking if I would read the books. Again since this is a sensitive time of year for me I agreed to do what my wife has so desperately wanted. I will read the book! Alright guys, I understand I’m supporting what has most likely caused at least one fight in your relationship. Trust me it has done the same for mine. But after talking with my wife about our marriage I realized a few things. Things that I've known all along, like I need to be romantic, patient, caring all things that Edward is an expert at. (Considering he is a fictional character with no job, kids, ect. only thing this dude worries about it eating animals? Plus, isn't he over 100 years old, pedophile!) Anyway, I guess no more Edward bashing for me since I will be reading the books. But I just wanted to tell my wife that it doesn't take me reading a book to realize how lucky I am to have her. I may not be the perfect husband but sometimes all you need to do it talk with me. I understand that every woman needs to have someone that understands her. Someone that is on her side and will fight if necessary for her happiness. The real world is hard, fantasy is easy but that doesn't mean that I will ever stop working to be a better husband! I apologize for all of us husbands out there, we get carried away in sports, school, work, ect... and we forget how tender and romantic our wives really are. I understand that it’s important to work at a relationship and that you need us to be that person at the end of the day making everything better. A person that doesn’t judge you or make you feel less than perfect for having flaws. I’ve come to understand that no one is perfect and that we all have things to work on. Pointing out faults never solves the problem. SO! What I’m trying to say is that I understand. As for the rest of you, please don’t make your husbands read the books. Don't give up on us! Just talk, I promise they will listen. Edward ain’t got nothing on us!